Being a prankster is apparently a genetic trait. I got it from my father, and he got it from
his mother. For him it could have
been learned behavior, but I say it’s genetic because I did not grow up with
my father and the more I get to know him, the more apparent it is that the
apple did not fall far from the tree.
For my birthday last year I got a tattoo.
It was fun watching people try to decide if it was real or
not.
It was not a rash, spur of the moment thing.
I wanted a tattoo to represent my son, and I thought about
it for several years. Another original mom friend commented against it, “What if he[my son] doesn’t like tattoos?” was her thought.
“I’m not doing this for him,” I told her. “I’m doing this for me.”
So I finally sketched out a design, and the tattoo artist
tweaked it a bit for me.
Here’s the symbolism of my ink
Two hearts:
-the love between my husband and I
The unopened yellow rosebud is confined within the heart:
-our little flower bud, who will never bloom into her own
independent person.
-she was only a life known only by my husband and I.
The Orange calendula spirals piercing
both hearts:
-calendula is the October birth flower
-our son was born in October.
-my love for him grew as he did, and life without him
constantly pierces my heart.
The dragonfly is moving from the outside of the heart:
-symbolizes our son, who was raised outside of our home.
-hopefully someday (soon?) the separation and him being on
the outside with no direct contact or communication, will end and a mutual
relationship can grow.
It is on my left arm, close to my heart.
April
Fools!
or
NO?
That is a beautiful tattoo and how anyone could not like such a lovely symbol so fraught with meaning is beyond me. I think it's wonderful!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sandy!
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