sometimes I wonder
it would have been better
Ironically I found this graphic on a blog post about forgetting
another huge mistake
Off all the tragedies of life, surviving the loss of a child is the greatest to endure. Losing a child to adoption is no exception. Some argue that since her child is alive, the original mother is spared that grief. They think she is able to experience peace because her child is with a loving couple who would not have a family otherwise. This is a smokescreen. Walk thru the smokescreen and read what it's really like Surviving Adoption Loss from the original mom's side of the story.